David Semonin
I was a new, fresh faced kid to New York when I came in looking for a job at the Drama Book Shoppe many years ago. That was when I first met David Semonin. He sent me in the right direction, and was so immediately supportive that I may have actually been suspicious if it were anyone else. But David had such a genuine soul that there was never a second thought.
Through the years David could always be counted on as an enthusiastic supporter of any and all of my endeavors. He came to all of my shows (the hits and the stinkers), and once even traveled two hours to the Bronx. He'd sit for hours as an attentive audience as I tried new monologues on him, never tiring, and eager to see things again in order to help me improve my work. He didn't have a cynical bone in his body, was always kind and encouraging with his words, and inspired confidence with an embracing joy of the artistic process on a level that's so rare to find.
On a personal level he was a friend who never wavered. When things were rough for me financially he created the “rotating ten dollar bill” - as long as I repaid it when I had the cash he always had a ten spot ready for me if I needed it. In fact the last time I saw him he made the offer again. In spite of his own illness and whatever he was suffering he was more concerned with how I was doing, and actively showed his support and interest in my life. It felt good that I could tell him that I was doing just fine.
When I became David's roommate for a short time I witnessed his full time passion for the arts and theatre. He'd video tape programs on the arts to archive for his students and friends, taking enormous time to collect and edit them. There's so much I would never have seen if David had not taken the trouble to do this. But it wasn't trouble for him; it was his life.
As I got to know David through the years I discovered that my experience with him was not unique. He actively sought to make a difference and create whatever opportunities he could for every young, aspiring artist he met. He did make that difference, and then some. I also know that as I continue in these endeavors David will be looking down on me with the same encouragement and non judgmental support he had always been so generous with, as he will for all of us. And the only thing he would have us do in return is pass the same enduring, fervent support to any committed hopeful artist who did not have the pleasure of knowing him. David Semonin made more of a difference than he realized. He created a legacy that lives on in all of the many lives he touched.
Thank you, David.
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3 Comments:
Cary,
That was such an inspiring message. I'm so glad that you knew him early on in your acting aspirations. It sounds like he was a true and honest and a man with intrigitity. I feel he made a very great impact on your life and for that I am grateful.
Love You,
mom
Cary,
I appreciate your blog post about David Semonin.
I recently ran across an old friend/fellow student from my time at Neighborhood Playhouse and as we got to catching up, she mentioned David Semonin had died earlier this year.
Though I can't say I was very close to him while we were acquaintance/friends during the 6 years I was living in New York, and certainly I hadn't seen or spoken with David since moving to Florida in the Dec 1998, during my time there he always tried to encourage me as a friend or direct me on to the next small step in pursuing an acting career.
David was the librarian at NP when I met him and as you well stated, he was wealth of knowledge. I had no idea he was connected to the Drama Book Shoppe when I first started working there (and regret I left too soon) but we met for lunch and dinner on a number of occasions around Manhattan. He told me about acting auditions and helped with a chance for me to see a play or performance.
As you and others have stated here (on your wonderful blog by the way---I hope you haven't given up on it--as I don't see as many posts recently in 2010--you have a lot of inspiring things to share about your career, passions and life) David was a humble and generous man, who most especially made sure I knew I was welcome back at The Neighborhood Playhouse after the first year ended and I will never forget that and how he always made me feel welcome and wanted to listen to what I had to say. David really saw and listened to people, and that is a true role model!
Best,
Russell Ledbetter
P.S. My brother had died in 2000 and mother and I went to NYC to see some shows as my brother had always wanted to be an actor before becoming afflicted with paranoid shizophrenia around the time he was 20 and in college. I was at that time that I learned Anthony Franz had died. Another great guy and mentor!
Good to (read) you are doing so well and still pursuing your passion and dreams---I was then and am now so inspired about how persistent and determined and dedicated to being an actor you are. Don't forget what a great service you are to humanity, Cary, as an actor, whether you become rich or win an Academy Award has absolutely zero to do with it. You offer a great service to us all--all actors--by inspiring us, entertaining us, et al. Keep up the good work! I am so proud of you!!
Best, RL
Cary,
I appreciate your blog post about David Semonin.
I recently ran across an old friend/fellow student from my time at Neighborhood Playhouse and as we got to catching up, she mentioned David Semonin had died earlier this year.
Though I can't say I was very close to him while we were acquaintance/friends during the 6 years I was living in New York, and certainly I hadn't seen or spoken with David since moving to Florida in the Dec 1998, during my time there he always tried to encourage me as a friend or direct me on to the next small step in pursuing an acting career.
David was the librarian at NP when I met him and as you well stated, he was wealth of knowledge. I had no idea he was connected to the Drama Book Shoppe when I first started working there (and regret I left too soon) but we met for lunch and dinner on a number of occasions around Manhattan. He told me about acting auditions and helped with a chance for me to see a play or performance.
As you and others have stated here (on your wonderful blog by the way---I hope you haven't given up on it--as I don't see as many posts recently in 2010--you have a lot of inspiring things to share about your career, passions and life) David was a humble and generous man, who most especially made sure I knew I was welcome back at The Neighborhood Playhouse after the first year ended and I will never forget that and how he always made me feel welcome and wanted to listen to what I had to say. David really saw and listened to people, and that is a true role model!
Best,
Russell Ledbetter
P.S. My brother had died in 2000 and mother and I went to NYC to see some shows as my brother had always wanted to be an actor before becoming afflicted with paranoid shizophrenia around the time he was 20 and in college. I was at that time that I learned Anthony Franz had died. Another great guy and mentor!
Good to (read) you are doing so well and still pursuing your passion and dreams---I was then and am now so inspired about how persistent and determined and dedicated to being an actor you are. Don't forget what a great service you are to humanity, Cary, as an actor, whether you become rich or win an Academy Award has absolutely zero to do with it. You offer a great service to us all--all actors--by inspiring us, entertaining us, et al. Keep up the good work! I am so proud of you!!
Best, RL
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